Love Made Easy

Love Made Easy

You can take my time, tie it to the bed. Spread apart the seconds and divide the minutes into drawn out mouths and slow talk.

You can have me because here I am free. I can flower or I can plant myself in dirt but you always leave out a teaspoon of sugar water. Like a glass of milk and a mince pie for Father Christmas and never forgetting the carrot for Rudolph. You always believe in me.

You brought me pancakes in bed and it meant something.

I read you like a slow digestion, savoured and not greedy, burning off the excess punctuation.

(I don’t care about bad spellings, just give me the words.)

Your devotion on my black tar days; the non-linear nature of all things when done right.

What we expect is only adventure.

To The Rhythm And The Waves And The Chaos

To The Rhythm And The Waves And The Chaos

Start with a warm up, stretch out the stiff muscles and weary heart. It’s been a long week. It’s always been a long week and I move with this extra weight carried across my neck. Find a space and plan on staying there, stuck to the solid ground where comfort festers in a steady sway.

The music shifts up a pace and Aretha Franklin plays. She speaks to me, sings into my ear in sisterly love. “Give yourself a little respect”, she says, “try just a little bit.” I take a small step, so used to clumsy connection to the source, but step after step and soles of the feet slowly change into palms, finding how it feels to be open to the floor, to flow, passing through the body’s forgotten places, forging paths for them to take part, sense their being alive.

Called to partner with another awakened soul, I follow their footing and think that I’ll figure the rest out later.

We learn to accept ourselves with the light touch of piano keys, each note a kiss on the lips and I learn to linger with kindness in the parting lullaby. A pattern emerges of being lost and found and then lost again and again, the dance of pleasure that folds into pain then folds into passion. Stamping a mark on the surface of the earth with a scream of ‘I am here’. Welcome body, welcome breath; let me love you into abundance.

Use By Date

Use By Date

The lioness sits down with the coward and asks him what the rush is. The heart is not a supermarket where you come to grab your essentials with a shopping list of expectations and presume you can stick it on a tab. You could have got it all for free if you had just stopped trying to make a meal out of me. Searching for the perfect recipe for something you’ve never tasted. Tell me I’m too much meat on the bone but complain that you’re still hungry and alone. Just the right amount of chilli but not enough kneading and god forbid that you leave me to prove that I could get through a bad day without you, that you might have to follow instructions when I could not have been clearer that I taste better with a touch of patience, not cranking up the heat till I evaporate in a cloud of steam.

Forgive me for speaking out of my vacuumed packet but I don’t see the magic in the trick of how you made me disappear.

James Brown

James Brown

Barefoot, bold feet feeling out the dance floor

for the first song at the wedding between your body and you.

Bravely finding what fits

so yell if you need to, scream at the ways you were burgled.

Sometimes it’s not so easy to forget yesterday

or the fear that stays buried under fingernails;

but your self has always belonged in these bones

and brand new cells will shed old skin

to show the warrior you became,

battle-scarred, the sun senses the beginnings of a smile

and bathes in her yellow freedom.

Every Day A Weather Change

Every Day A Weather Change

Sunday’s body heat left me cold,

feigned calmness and clasping at the chance

to feel close to another heart beat,

heads resting on chests, a collection bucket of tears

donated by the quietly broken.

By Monday, cheap champagne makes my choices

under cover of darkness and dripping in melted chocolate,

these marshmallow mouths crave comfort,

drum and bass meets muffled cries of delight

as our minds drown in the musical remix.

Tuesday felt no fragment of guilt,

maybe it was just grief faded into folds of grey

and five beers in, your fingers find mine

and grasp fragility, so focused on some far off goal

that I miss finding myself in the flood.

The week moves on and takes me with it,

making peace with the waves, the lulls in longing

will end as they must, I trust I will land

wherever the wind tires of me, a farewell

wearing laughter, and with love my faithful friend.

Scar Tissue

Scar Tissue

I weigh my heart twice a day,

feed it green tea every morning

and at night, a hot bath

to soak these solemn thoughts

in lavender and rose petals.

Light a candle

to satisfy its thirst with melting wax

until, drunk on hope,

together we collapse under a canopy of stars.

A night sky spun into a spider’s web;

catching my dreams and disturbing my sleep

with air so drenched in expectation

I forget to breathe.

I weigh my heart twice a day,

slice it open, a live dissection.

Locate the source of the heaviness just off centre,

in the space I saved to keep someone else happy

somewhere they never chose to stay.

A Manifesto of Stolen Moments

A Manifesto of Stolen Moments

i. Space

I never knew existence could be so heavy, that loss could mean a weight

pinning me down with a hand around my throat, he squeezes the scream out of my skin

and it stains the ceiling, from where I stare through glazed empty eyes at my floating soul

looking back at a me unrecognisable; that is not me and not my body. The room is shrinking,

imploding in on itself to a black hole and I am plunging deeper into futility

through night terror territory into one-dimensional existence.

The void threatens to swallow me whole but I am too absorbed in life light years away,

amongst the planets in far off, distant galaxies where I visit dying stars

until gravity has its way. Flung face down on the concrete dirt floor, a year grounded

with spirit split in pieces, until a word tugs gently at the torn hem of my dress;

it is ‘Hope’, gazing graciously, wide eyed and innocent,

she offers a carefully folded slip of paper

and I caress the crumpled surface, screwed into a ball tightly clenched in my fist,

a touch of reality passes in whispers through the pores of my skin, till palm unfolds

and pages begin their reverse origami, multiplying blank page after blank page.

Mine to fill with the words I could not speak, those conceived in silence, grown in the dark

and birthed by some sacred entity, some Mother Earth

who would not have me give up on this life lightly. The writing comes in clumps,

forms on the page like poorly fitting clothes, I had not measured the depth of my feelings

nor the circumference of these curdled thoughts. Their presence demands

each letter is loved into its lines, that each sentence is scanned for signs of life

and shown how to breathe on its own. I fill these rooms with rhymes.

 

ii. Water

When raindrops escape from the clouds and lick my exposed skin they taste sadness.

It is why they are always coloured blue or grey, and not pink with shimmering glitter,

because everyone knows the flavours of sunlight and rainbows and happiness

without the need for touch, but poetry must be absorbed and drill deeper than the senses.

It is why I wear shorts in thunderstorms, why each droplet feels like a kiss;

it’s how the words soak in, and it doesn’t matter if I sink or swim

because there are still more words on the river bed floor, carried by the currents

back to their source, eroded by those who have used them before. With thirsty lovers

drinking scrambled letters as if hearts were a limited resource. I wash off their scent,

running a bath with the words that stay as I patiently wait for the hot ink to flow

as once it runs cold I know what is lost and grieving has found a new story

and I can move on to the next part of mine. Warm, wet sand between my toes

and I wade into the ocean, the words lapping at my ankles.

I wonder how I was ever afraid of the change in weather, how it took so long

to discover the water cure. I collect the wild, wandering, infant words in my net, tame them,

teach them how to paddle, and when they come across another wild, wandering woman,

drowning as I was, I ask them to let fall their anchor, fill her lungs

with the most delicate creations, keep her afloat, bring her back to land

and show her poetry.

 

iii. Fire

I have burned your strawberry fields to the ground. These flames taste sweet on my tongue,

dead plants breaking under my bare feet. I have been screaming since that June full moon

but Ceridwen used the twilight to brew me a potion and now a magic curse

runs words through my veins. Did no one teach you that witches don’t die at the stake?

We reclaim every cell of our bodies with centuries of words bled onto these pages,

for all the times a woman’s voice was hated and her rage was painted as something pretty,

without substance, without solidity, flimsy against the prison cell bars

that restrained our creative spark through history. We strip these silences down to their bones,

rebuild skeletons and hide them in closets till least expected, speaking in the language

of our ancestor’s ghosts, our words demand to be unchained from our throats

and now you can’t say you didn’t hear us say the word no because its embers

are scorching your sheets. Maybe now the next generation will read that freedom

is more than a concept. When anger melts into soft strokes of calligraphy,

I scribble a passionate prayer that our darkest points

do not brand us with armour nor harden our hearts. These ashes of dead letters

will fertilise new soil, for what are women made for but courage and fires in our bellies.

I will not stop writing till I can taste the ripe, delicious, sweetness of a strawberry

without it reminding me of you, and still then my writing will continue.

I will wet my finger, trace directions into the dust, brew courage on the stove,

hand out mugs to every woman who has ever felt the sting of a man’s branding iron,

marked by his hands, his skin, his cells.

A woman’s creativity cannot be kept in a cage and this collective fury

incites collective change. There may be tigers above and tigers below

but this moment is just one page in a library of feminist action,

I will not water down my reactions. The women before me offer their shoulders to stand on

as I hold fast to the torch that lights the way for the next one.

 

iv. Air

To me, poetry is oxygen. I don’t know how I ever breathed before without it.

The air is enriched, the wind brings ideas and phrases bit by bit

till they settle on the pen. With words I find freedom, lost in the images

formed in my imagination. Since I was a child

I pretended I could write stories and perform them, copying pages from books

and claiming them as my own creation. After dark, other children

would turn on the television, or creep downstairs for a midnight snack, but my feast

was a dim nightlight and a book of poetry. Reading is my meditation, writing my escapism,

I need them like I need my organs. Inspiration is all around us,

and those who don’t feel its breeze don’t know what they are missing. We live to create;

whether art, music or words on paper, and I can’t surround myself

with hearts and minds whose lungs don’t function the same as mine.

Creativity is the purest form of human expression, every inhale is a lesson

and exhale a forgetting, a letting go

of the poison that no longer serves us. I may be miles from ones I love,

ones I hope to see again, ones I have never seen and never loved

but where we share a connection, a swift breath, but still I can tie my words into a parcel

and send them like a hot air balloon across the sky in the hope they touch these others

and envelop them in another temporary reality, for just a short passage of time.

This is what I live for, and the more I get the more I want,

a shamelessly haunting addiction for fact or fiction. I have been in the position

where I wanted to die and a poem by Atticus saved my life. I have been in the position

where one I love tried to end their life and where no one else understood what it felt like,

but hooked up to a ventilator filled with poetry I begin to feel alright.

 

v. Earth

She both has roots and yet has none that tie her down. She aligns herself with the planets

but stands out from the crowd. She knows there is a past and a future but lives

here in the now. She calls herself Mother Nature and to her wild wisdom I bow.

Her words connect humanity and speak of love as a verb. Her thunder and lightning

demand to be heard.  She uses every season to bloom and to grow,

she nurtures plants to flower in spring then kills them off with snow.

She serves the world with stories and rhymes, she passes on tales of old,

whilst we encourage the youngest to fill our shoes and pray their hearts

do not grow cold. She formed me from her blood and soil, she kept me safe with tears,

through the river beneath the river she guides me through my fears. She refuses to stay silent

about the matters of the heart, she names the deepest emotions and turns them into art.

She matches words to the world outside, she gives song to my soul and she empowers

me to speak my senses and leave no shame untold. She translates my mental states,

whether blessing or disease and she welcomes in my demons and makes them feel at ease.

She seeks out what is missing and speaks in prophecy, she understands the universe

and how it takes care of me. Her heartbeat is the purest sound,

synced with those who have come before, they teach me how to love my scars

and turn them into words with doors. She encourages me to share of my darkness

and my light because vulnerability is my power and I find this when I write.

Her touch breeds electricity that generates the words, which fall independent

to my hands direction, I hold the pen for but a turn. Her chemistry breaks down the bonds

to the reality we know, the reaction liberates the words as they burst out and overflow.

She does not intervene with my free will but moves me just the same,

she knows when to make a rainbow and when I just need rain.

She spurs me on to leave my work out in the world alone

because the words will always visit as this was their first home.

She reminds me of the beauty in this nature’s sacred earth

and that I am made from the same fragments so should appreciate my worth.

She taught me how to speak up and how to project my voice

because words belong to everyone and how I use them is my choice.

She wants us to change the world one stanza at a time and own our stories

like they are held to ransom and we are fighting for our lives.

For we are not separate bodies, we are all parts of a whole.

Some may sing, scream, write, paint, dance, or simply listen

but we each have vital roles.

So if your God is a woman, you are both blessed and likewise cursed,

for we can’t ignore the pain and suffering but we can write them into verse.